When was
the last time you scribbled something on a piece of paper , let alone
write a full document or letter for instance ? Signatures on
official documents or on credit card receipts won't cont . I am sure
only a handful of hands out there rising in
affirmative to such a question . But not too long ago hand written paper
was a dominant mode of communication . That was abut a couple of decades back , before the invasion of digital media into our
private space . I use the word ' invasion' to emphasize on the rapid
shift from pen and paper as the primary means of expression and
communication to a strategically placed set of buttons with letters
printed on them - the QWERTY keypad or keyboard as we know
today .
Don't
get me wrong here . I am all for the revolution that digital media
has brought in our lives . In fact , without this very revolution , I
would not have been able to be writing these words at this very
moment with an intention of reaching out to a wide-spread audience
out there . It's the convenience of electronics , far reach of the
internet and the free platform that all forms of social media provides
that has enabled people from across all spheres of life to share
their opinions , irrespective of tone and nature .
But do
you miss that feeling of your fingers grazing through a sheet of
paper while your pen races down it to put your thoughts into words ?
Don't you miss the feeling of seeing how artistically you would have
stretched the loop in the tail of a G or that long strike you made on
the letter 'T ? Even the blotted spots of ink and the strokes of
correction had a charm of their own . The personal touch , you can
say , that's amiss today . There was a time when one was known by how
neat , artistic or messy was their handwriting .
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Well ,
we had proper handwriting classes in our school back in the day . I am
not even sure such a thing is taught in today's schools and even if
it is ,whether there is much stress on it on part of the teachers
or parents . Why would they, knowing that even primary school students
are expected to submit printed assignments now. When everything can
be copied , pasted and edited , one can have the luxury of ignorance
and being correct eventually anyway. A young mind could do without
that luxury . Rather a little bit of hardship in the form of actual
'writing' would go a long way in imprinting the fact that not every
wrong doing can be undone ; you have to bear the consequences of
your actions
We tend
to remember better what we write on paper rather than what we type on
a computer or smartphone. In fact , there has been some research on
this and it has been proven that traditional way of note-taking yields more benefits than the same done on a computer.
Why
would you deprive your child of such an essential habit ?
But yes
there are still some of us who enjoy the pleasure , even though occasionally , of putting pen to paper to jot down few lines of random
thought or may be even keep a journal . Love letters and greeting
cards – how can we forget them?!! The amount of intimacy that a
hand-written note brings to a relationship is unparalleled compared to a WhatsApp message or an SMS . But in the rapidly changing dynamics of
the dating world and relationships in general , hand -written
letters or cards is very much a thing of the past and almost tagged
as 'old school romance'.
I picked
up a pen myself a few days ago after a long time ; longer than I
could remember when was the last time . And surprisingly I did not
recognize my own hand-writing and at same time had a tinge of sadness
to have noticed the deterioration in it. To be honest , my handwriting was not that
great in the first place but it was still pleasing to the eyes to say
the least , something which I could not say of it any longer. But I
am not one to shy off from a battle . I kept on writing , scribbling
words , random thoughts , mostly out of context . I wrote until my
wrist started to ache a little , reminding me of the rustiness that had
settled in . As they say , you never forget how to ride a bicycle ,
the same would be applicable for writing too. Once you survive the
initial bumps , the road is one to content and joy.
So why don't you try for yourself . Pick up a pen or even a pencil for that matter and grab a piece of paper . Write a page on whatever is going on in your mind at this very moment . Write about anything and stop not until you fill up an entire page and then some more which I am sure you would be willing to. Let's bring back the pen and paper , at least some of it , enough to salvage the pride and relive the romance .